I have another cool transsexual history item to post but this is just a brief update on what has been happening with me.
The contract work I took on is a lot more involved than I expected and I have found myself working on it pretty much full time with a few very late nights thrown in for good measure. I can see why they outsourced this particular project!
Had a meeting today with the company to go over progress and they gave me some additional tasks.
I am still using the Lincoln daily and have yet to switch over to the Seville. The Lincoln still has a manifold leak making the semi muffled 460 sound like a wheel barrow full of bricks being shot out of a cannon….not very ladylike I am afraid.
Lots of good “passing stories” TM, though I tend to forget them if I don’t write them down. A good example was at Canadian Tire today where I had three different staff members offer to help me (NEVER happened in guy mode), ma’am’d most everywhere. Sneaking suspicion that one of the two girls working the cash at the gas station read me, the one steps behind display and gestures to the other then the girl I was paying gives me an extra appraising sort of look. Perhaps they just liked my fur coat.
Crossed paths with lady from church while I was with children at McDonalds, “J” runs into her later and mentions well I guess you know then, confused look, turns out she thought I was the baby sitter. Ok enough bragging, I am sure I still get read more often than not. Which brings us to the ever sticky issue of voice. The contract work involves a lot of follow up phone calls, I have been practicing my voice at the start of each session but have got a few sirs (booo). I have not chickened out and left it up to the person on the other end, instead I start Hi this is April from…
Have an interview scheduled for Monday, already had two phone interviews as April with this company, a little nervous… make that very nervous as to meeting in person.
Met up with friends Ashley and Natasha, seems all our lives are moving in parallel as both are full time and like me doing our best to find our way forward without a map.
Today’s musical pick is the Modernettes from Vancouver’s 1980 punk scene with a decidedly Jan and Dean sounding rave up, Barbra. Play it loud!
Photo is of course Coccinelle taken from the amazing web site, http://www.queermusicheritage.us/drag.html
Very interesting, tons of history, some of it pertaining to being transsexual.
Best of luck with your interview, April! I have one tomorrow myself. Here's hoping the employment gods (or goddesses, now that I think about it) smile on both of us... :c)
ReplyDelete== Kelly
Always a pleasure to drop into your blog to hear how you are getting along.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with the interviews
Becca
April I have told you many times you are quite beautiful. Just be yourself because facially there is little chance you do not pass. You are just going through what all in transition transsexuals go through.
ReplyDeleteIt happened to me in NYC in late 60's and early 70's and it happens to everyone. It is just part of the process and to most of us passing is very important since most of us just want to fit in.